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Lab-Grown Diamond Toi Et Moi Stud Earrings

Toi et moi stud earrings set two lab-grown diamonds side by side on each ear, so every stud reads as a small pair. These two stone stud earrings come in staggered, vertical and bypass layouts, with round or marquise lab-grown diamonds, in white, yellow or rose gold, platinum or silver.

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Finding Your Perfect Pair

Studs vs. Drops

Studs sit close for everyday ease; drops and dangles add graceful movement for evening.

Backing Types

Choose a secure screw back for daily wear, or a classic push back for quick on-and-off.

Carat & Sparkle

From subtle solitaires to bold statement carats — total weight is split across the pair.

Metal & Tone

White, yellow, rose gold or platinum — pick a tone that flatters your skin and wardrobe.

Buying guide

What makes a toi et moi stud

Toi et moi means "you and me" in French. In a ring it pairs two stones; in a stud it puts two lab-grown diamonds on one earring instead of a single stone. The result covers a little more of the earlobe than a solitaire stud and has a lighter, off-center look. These toi et moi studs differ mainly in how the two stones sit: staggered at a slant, stacked one above the other, or set at the ends of a curved pave bar that wraps past the earlobe in a bypass shape.

Shapes, weight and grades

Round lab-grown diamonds give the most sparkle and a classic look. Marquise lab-grown diamonds are long and pointed, so a staggered pair looks longer on the ear. Total weight is the weight of all the lab-grown diamonds in the pair of earrings, and it is set per design: lighter options sit at 0.2 or 0.25 carat total weight, and a larger option reaches 1 carat total weight. Prices start under $150, and most pairs cost about $270 to $340.

Choosing a metal

  • White gold and platinum suit a bright, icy look and match white metal jewelry.
  • Yellow and rose gold add warmth around the stones.
  • Gold comes in 10K, 14K or 18K. 14K is a good balance of color and durability for daily wear.
  • Silvadium, a tarnish-resistant sterling silver, keeps the cost down.

Platinum is dense and naturally white, so it never needs replating and holds small prongs well.

Made to order

Each piece is made for you in 10–15 days. Shipping is free on orders over $500, and returns are accepted within 30 days.