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Pear Toi et Moi Rings

A two stone pear ring, or toi et moi ring, sets a pear-shaped lab-grown diamond beside a second lab-grown diamond of another shape, both set and ready in the finished ring. Pair the pear with a cushion, emerald, heart, marquise, princess or radiant cut, on a plain band or a pave band of lab-grown diamond accents. Every ring comes in white, yellow or rose gold, platinum, or Silvadium, a tarnish-resistant sterling silver.

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Buying guide

What a toi et moi ring is

Toi et moi is French for "you and me". The ring holds two main stones side by side, often of different shapes, to stand for two people. A pear works well in this style because its point and rounded end lean naturally toward the second stone, and the two shapes together give the ring a modern, uneven look.

Choosing the second shape

  • Pear and marquise: two pointed shapes for a long, slim line.
  • Pear and emerald or princess: the straight edges of a step or princess cut contrast with the pear's curve.
  • Pear and cushion or radiant: a softer square beside the pear, with plenty of sparkle.
  • Pear and heart: a romantic pairing of two curved shapes.

About half the designs add a pave band of small accents; the rest keep the band plain so the two stones stand out.

Metal, carat weight and grades

Gold comes in 10K, 14K or 18K. Every design offers 1 to 9 carats total weight for the two stones, with D, E or F color and VVS1, VVS2 or VS1 clarity, all picked on the product page. Prices for the finished ring start from about $530, and most rings are about $1,050.

Made to order

Each ring is made for you in 10–15 days. Shipping is free on orders over $500, returns are accepted within 30 days, and one resize is free within 60 days of delivery.